DEE UK - - 10/31/01 10:51:33
Hi everyone, my continuing saga. I had egg collection yesterday, only two eggs were retrived. I have just found out today that one of the eggs has fertilized and is looking good. I must admit to get this far is a miracle. I under respondsed to the stim drugs and only produced two follicles so me and DH are happy we have been able to get this far. Embryo transfer will be tomorrow.Fingers crossed and good luck to you all.

Angie - USA - 10/29/01 14:26:48
I love this site! All the success storys just brought tears to my eyes.Dh and I are both31,married10yrs trying 10yrs. Were not well off by any means,so all this ttc,is made even more difficult,a part of us has given up,but IVF is still a dream that may come true,so wish us luck as I do you all

GAIL - UK - 10/29/01 09:01:43
My husband and I did our first cyle of ICSI in June 2000,18 eggs, three fertilized and two transferred. Shortly after this we were devastated by my mum's leg amputation from thrombosis. We tried IUI with donor in January and February 2001 and then I lost Mum in Marh She was my world and a baby for us meant everything to her which has made us more determined than ever. We did IVF in July with eleven eggs and eight fertilized with donor We now await the outcome of the two week wait from the frozen transfer which is up on Friday 2nd November. I have no symptoms whatsoever and am not feeling hopeful after so many disappointments. I know I should be positive but it is so difficult. Good luck to everyone else out there who is going through this. I hope so much it will all be worth it in the end

Dee - UK - 10/29/01 05:35:08
Hi Every one, I first wrote out to you all on the 19th October I was in the middle of my first IVF cycle. Well unfortunately all is not going well. I under responded to the injections and my last scan yesterday showed only two eggs. I have been told that my hormones levels are good and that on egg collection there is the possibility that they may be able to retrive two eggs. I was given the choice of cancelling this cycle. Because of my age (41) it likley that evan if I do try again the posiiblity of producing more than one or two eggs are quite slim, so I have decided to go the whole way and go for egg collection tomorrow. I am keeping my fingers crossed that they are able to retrive two eggs but I know that my chances are vvv slim. I,ll let you all now how I get on. They do say miracles can happen even at my age. Good luck to all of you.

JM - Australia - 10/28/01 19:30:19
My husband and I just finished our first IVF cycle with no success. When I found out that my HCG test was negative, I felt like a failure in all ways. To this day I think of that moment and can't help feeling depressed. I had my period the next day and now I'm waiting for next months period to possibly begin a FET. We only have one embryo left and if it even survives the freeze would be a miracle. I'm anticipating that I will be going through another IVF cycle as soon as I possibly can and I hope it will be a rewarding experience. I found this site today and I'm glad that it exists. It's hard to talk about these things to other people who will never understand what it's like to have to go through such measures just to have a baby. I wish all the luck to everyone who is going through IVF.

Vicki - usa - 10/26/01 22:36:11
I have just gone through my first ivf cycle and it did not work...I am going through it again in january so, wish me luck...

Debbie - Manitoba, Canada - 10/25/01 21:06:43
My husband and I are very fortunate to have one child (he's 4 now). I have felt so very guilty and shelfish to have gone to a clinic and investigate the reasons why we haven't been able to conceive another child for over 3 years now... There are so many couples who have not had the opportunity to have even 1 child. I felt they deserved the doctors time and resources more than we did. We wanted so much for our first born to have a sibling and to be very close in age . Only now is it that I have realized to just live my life to the best and fullest that I can. I am very thankful for what I have rather that what I don't have. My son has noticed a change of attitude with my husband and I as well. Instead of dealing with the stress of unexplained fertility, we are able to focus all our attention on our son. He loves it!! I wish all the loving couples at this site much success and happiness in their lives and within themselves!

Helena - Toronto, Canada - 10/24/01 03:24:42
I have learned so much off of this site! At times when the RE doesn't explain in detail these gals on this site are a great help! I've had a negative IVF#1 cycle and without this support i think i would've gone crazy! Now on to cycle #2 with possibly donor eggs...looking forward to additional support,knowledge and experiences from the gals back here again!Good luck to all,hoping for a beautiful child soon!!!

Katherine - England - 10/23/01 10:05:50
I'm so happy to be able to come on to this website and read other people success stories for encouragement and chat with people in the same boat as me. We are having our first IVF next month. Good luck to everyone and thank you x

Helen Evangelou - Cyprus - 10/23/01 09:43:59
I found your site a couple of days ago on the net and I think it's brilliant. I have just gone through the IVF procedure and am waiting for my results tomorrow. I am so nervous I could explode. Your stories have helped me a great deal and reading them made me feel so happy for everyone that went through it and got positive results. Could you imagine the sadness in so many lives if there was'nt IVF and all these special children were being born from it.

Kym - Japan - 10/23/01 03:43:22
I just had my first ivf done on Sunday now going thru the 2ww. I found the site today.

Lt - USA - 10/21/01 22:16:18
Hb and i are going through our 2nd iui and saving for ivf. This website has been so helpful to me, i jump on here almost every night and have made some new friends all over the world in the chat room. Thank you

Gina - USA - 10/21/01 19:13:03
My husband and I have gone through 5 IUI's and just completed our first IVF. Tomorrow is the big day when we find out if it worked. The waiting is the worst part and I have found comfort by this site!

-- This is our 4th ivf attempt. On our third attempt we had a triplet pregnancy. However we lost them. They discovered one was a cornual pregnancy. (implanted where the tube meets the uterus.) So they had to do surgery and remove it. 5 weeks later I lost the other 2, due to infection (most likely from the other surgery. But we still have faith !!! Good luck to everyone!! its a lot of stress and sometimes heartache. BUt look at he angels that do come out of it.

denise cotten - usa - 10/20/01 12:07:34
i love this site. i am new to ivf and have insurance but doesn't cover the procedure. does anyone know of a company that does cover ivf in georgia?

deanne - UK - 10/20/01 10:42:26
Hi, This is my 3rd IVF, this site is a real tonic. I wish i had found it when i was doing the previous two cycles, i could have done with the support because we lost both pregnancies, 1st one m/c and the second ectopic. Well here we go again, we are hoping 3rd time lucky. Good luck to all. Hugs Deanne

Dee - UK - 10/19/01 12:26:32
Hi everyone, I am in the middle of my first cycle and am finding the whole experiance quite stressful. I am an older mum (41) and because of the sigma with older women wanting children I have found that I am having to keep this a secret from everyone even my family.I just wonder why the majority of people think you must be mad to want a child in your forties.

Imogen Itami - Cornwall, UK - 10/19/01 07:00:11
I am about to start my fourth cycle and am looking for some strength and inspiration...good luck to anyone who is in the middle of treatment now

Imogen Itami - Cornwall, UK - 10/19/01 06:55:19
I am about to start my fourth cycle and am looking for some strength and inspiration...good luck to anyone who is in the middle of treatment now

Amy Dolan - USA - 10/18/01 12:51:18
Hi everyone, I am on my first cycle IVF/ICSI. PG Test tomorrow. I am so happy to find this site - it is helping answer a lot of questions that I had.

Carina - USA - 10/17/01 23:10:35
I am actually in a class at school called "Cultural and Biological Perspectives on Pregnancy and Childbirth". We have been reading and having a lot of discussions about IVF. In class we each have to be pregnant and the situation that I was given was that I am a surogate mother going through IVF treatment. Its pretty exciting! Good luck to everyone who is going through this right now and thatnkyou for the info.

Halo - U.K. - 10/17/01 15:00:24
Hello, I'm new to all of this and I really don't know what to say to you all as I haven't yet started on my treatment. Anyway I will hopefully be going for DIUI after Christmas. Good luck to you all and I hope to chat to you sometime!

Sammy - England - 10/17/01 10:46:08
My husband and I are keeping our IVF a secret until I get pregnant because we feel there is enough pressure involved without outside infulences! I am so glad to have been drawn to your site as I can share what is happening to me without having to speak to anyone. I feel it a real comfort to know that I am not alone with what I am experiencing. Love to all of you, and the very best of luck! God Bless.

Quentin - McNugget - 10/16/01 00:29:37
What a great site!!!!!!

Hani&Syed - Singapore - 10/15/01 22:52:56
We've been married for over 7 years and knowing that after more than 4 years of trying hard to conceive, it was devastating to find out that we eventually had to report to the Infertility Clinic to seek help. Here there's not much of support given. People are more conservative and secretive about the INFERTILITY thing. We felt lonely. After 4 failed IUI cycles, we decided on IVF on August 2001. While browsing through the net I found this site and I was infact chatting with some friends here and I felt really good though my IVF/ICSI cycle was unsuccessful at least I know that my DH and I are not alone. We'll be doing an FET in end October and are hoping for the best. I'm glad to knoe that there are a lot others all over the world who are like us, wanting badly for the little ones of our own. To all those I've interacted before, good luck.

Kellie - Australia - 10/15/01 00:13:26
Great site - this is my secodn attempt at ICSI. Had last two embryos transfered 8/10 - so far so good. Here's hoping....

Ruby - Australia - 10/14/01 08:41:01
Congrats for a wonderful site - so glad I have found it. We have been going through the ivf cycle for about a year now, and its great to have found somewhere to ask all those questions, receive unbiased information and such support!! It has been wonderful (and I have only been here for a week). Great place. Thanks to all involved, best wishes to everyone, may you all have success.

Pamie - UK - 10/14/01 05:48:37
Thinking about starting IVF next year (over 35).The laguage you speak seems to be foreign to me. Don't know how we will cope.

NANCY - USA , NJ - 10/10/01 17:26:59
Hi once again , I wrote once before around april and i didnt get pregnant then, but i can say now i am 4 months pregnant and couldnt be happier i would love to thank all the wonderful letters i received well, before the cancelled the list but i also pray to all who are waiting for beta counts or treatments GOD BLESS AND BABY DUST UR WAY........

Shelly Delph - USA - 10/10/01 17:21:13
Thank you for such a wonderful site. I happened upon it by accident, and so very glad I did. All the ladies on the boards are wonderful people. Shelly

Karen - Essex, England - 10/10/01 16:40:24
My husband andI have been trying to have a baby now for nearly 6 years. We have had various forms of fertility treatment and are currently undergoing our 3rd IVF/ICSI cycle. I know how we feel and what we have been through over the years, my prayers go out to any couples who feel the same, whether you have been trying for 2 weeks or ten years. Good luck.

Hope - Singapore - 10/10/01 03:07:32
Thank you for a wonderful experience. Do hope to be able to actively participate in the chats soon, slightly shy and intimidated at the moment.

Vicki - Jamaica - 10/08/01 17:40:08
Simply love the site, It helps all the questions you forgot to ask your doctor. The interaction is great. Keep it up

Katherine Gallagher - Ontario, Canada - 10/08/01 17:20:50
I am 40 have endometriosis and trying IVF for the 2nd time, keeping my fingers crossed for good things for all.

Heavenly - USA - 10/08/01 12:18:30
I had wonderful success in conceiving after having endometriosis, as a result of the assistance of a profound and wonderful healer named Myeka who is dedicated to assisting people who want to have children with having them. I experienced 100% healing with no more sign of endo after her treatment, and I am not the only one. She has healed fibroids, and other infertility problems. She is really amazing. She has been ver low key, but those of us who have experienced her want to let others know. I would be glad to refer anyone interested to her if you send me an email with the subjext Referral to Healer in the subject box. My email address is heavenlyjoya@hotmail.com

J deSouza - Canada - 10/07/01 16:52:38
My husband and I are dealing with infertility and it is good to know that there is a sight that we can turn to for information and uplifting stories. We are so young (23 & 27) and so desperately want a child, but we are just waiting for God to bless us with a little bundle of joy - in His time!!!!

Desi - Australia - 10/07/01 08:36:18
Thank you for a fantastic site. It has helped me so much and every single person on this board has been a great support.

Lesley - Surrey England - 10/07/01 08:02:31
I have had 3 failed ivf attempts, though everyting went really well. Last time i had 2 blastocysts put back, excellent condition but still didn't implant - help what should i do next

Ramona - Nova Scotia, Canada - 10/07/01 04:14:55
I was going to try to be a gestational surrogate but my partner is not up for that. So I want to be an egg donor. I feel the need to help a couple with their dream of having a child and if I can't carry a child for someone then this will be the next best thing. I have five beautiful children of my own and feel so blessed that I can't imagine not helping out in any way I can.This site is wonderful! I didn't even know it existed until now.

Kaptt - Canada - 10/06/01 16:49:00
It was devastating to me and my husband when we found out that we would be unable to conceive naturally. I don't think anyone in my life, friend's, family or co-worker's can understand the pain and anguish one goes through when trying to come to terms with infertility. Boards such as this one have given me a place to get support, vent my frustration and discuss my situation with others who totally understand what I'm going through. My hat goes off to the founders and administrators of this board who recognized the need for both men and woman to have a place to go to where they could talk openely and honestly about their situations. Cudo's as well to all who post on these boards giving support and hope to so many of us who so desperately need it. Thank you.

Tara - Australia - 10/05/01 18:51:05
I wished I had found this site when I was going through the IVF. I will certainly tell others about it. I am one of the lucky ones I went through my first cycle in 1995 my first try was an ectopic, my second was a success and I have a wonderfull son. My third try was May 2000 and now I have 2 beautiful twins 8 months old a boy and a girl. To others out there don't give up hope the pain and torment of the cycles will be worth it when you hold your precious gifts from god. GOOD LUCK and hang in there.

AH (Manchester) - England - 10/05/01 08:18:13
I signed the guest book about ten weeks ago. My first ivf failed and i was devastated, everyone kept telling me to be positive, and that i must try again. Well six months later i did. Waiting the two weeks to find out if it had worked was the longest two weeks ever. As i sat and did the pregnancy test i really thought it hadnt worked as i didnt feel any diffrent. Well to my surprise it had. I thought i would have jumped for joy but i just stared at the result i think i must have been in shock as i couldnt believe it. I am now eight weeks pregnant. To everyone out there goodluck i will say a prayer dont give up hope.

Anne - Australia - 10/05/01 01:53:00
What a great site! We start IVF in November,this site has helped us so Much.Good Luck to all fellow IVF patients!!

Angie - Canada - 10/04/01 16:38:32
this sight gives me hope

kim - england - 10/03/01 14:35:25
Just want to say, what a great site. I particularly love the chatroom and have found alot of comfort talking with the other people. One failed attempt, but looking ahead to the next try with positive thoughts.

Sandy - USA - 10/03/01 06:35:52
I think these bulletin boards for infertility are great.

Ang - USA - 10/02/01 12:03:02
I am thankful for everyones willingness to share their stories. They are so helpful and fill me with hope.

mrs. williams aka jockser1@aol.com - usa - 10/02/01 06:48:23
myself and husband are looking to start ivf in the boston, mass area, it is new to him, but not to myself, the problem is i don't have the same hmo carrier as i did in 1991 when i started the first process, the relationship ended and i didn't complete the process, now ten years later i would like to try again but cannot find any help in the boston, mass area....can anyone help me???????????????

Lisa Vaile - United States - 09/30/01 12:24:26
I enjoyed reading questions and answers. I had a difficult time finding information on male aspiration.

Shazz - Australia - 09/30/01 07:53:04
This site is awesome. I used to feel so alone. This site makes me feel normal again. Thanks

Laurie - Mississauga, Ont. Canada - 09/28/01 10:50:58
Found this website today. Wonderful source of information - I no longer feel so alone. Will probably begin IVF in early December so we will be doing alot of reading before then. Everyone is so positive - it's great to feel part of something now as opposed to feeling like a failure...thanks.

Lesley - NewZealand - 09/27/01 21:24:12
hello to everybody,my partner and I BLUE are going through IVF,it's amazing how many of us are out there, good luck,KEEP SMILING.

Lisa - USA - 09/27/01 20:13:52
We are in the middle of our first IVF cycle after 4 COH IUIs and 2 surgeries . . . I am sooo excited that we may finally be getting someplace. I am really stimulating well and am very hopeful. And if this doesn't work in a few cycles we will adopt. Am really tired of researching etc. and am just ready to be pregnant. But I have become such a great researcher and can probably be of assistance to many. Do not hesitate to ask.

Trish - USA - 09/26/01 19:59:15
My husband and I just finished our first IUI cycle and we just found out yesterday that it did not work. We are about to start our first IVF cycle and have found this site very very helpful. It can be so overwhelming and we certainly are learning more than we ever thought we would know about getting pregnant!

Alison - Australia - 09/26/01 19:20:05
My husband and I are about to start the IVF program and we wanted to find out as much information as possible before making that final decision. The site helped a lot and we now have more confidence when we start the program. Keep up the good work.

Jane - USA - 09/26/01 18:40:31
What a great site. Good Luck to everyone!! Stay Positive :)

al - u k wales - 09/26/01 13:44:10
hi found this page a few days ago had 3 failed iui attempts waiting to see about ivf - good luck everybody!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sherry - U.S.A. - 09/24/01 16:55:30
I was diagnosed with severe endometriosis last year and have two cysts removed before finding out we can't have children naturally. Now I'm in the thick of my first invitro try on October 13th. I'm scared. My husband is scared but we have to put our trust not only in God but our doctors.

Lillie - USA - 09/23/01 22:57:01
This is a wonderful website. I no longer feel alone. Currently in the 2ww and this website helps to calm me down a lot. Thanks for those who share their experiences on web. Wish everyone luck.

Kerry C - USA - 09/23/01 17:47:07
I have been reading this board since I found out my tubes were blocked and found out I have to do IVF. I feel fortunate to know about this site, it has answered sooooo many questions for me. I'm finally starting my suppression meds so I've signed on and introduced myself. Best luck to everyone.

Kathy - Canada - 09/23/01 11:41:01

Shaila - India - 09/22/01 00:39:56
This website is simply superb. It has given me so much of support and courage during my 2ww. i could find answers to all my stupid doubts. thanks a lot

Lili - SD,CA - 09/21/01 17:58:22
Great site. This is our 1st attempt and very happy and ready for it. God Bless us all!

Jennifer - Ohio - USA - 09/20/01 22:00:15
My husband and I have been trying to conceive for almost 7 years. After completing 7 failed intrauterine inseminations, we are now moving onto our first IVF cycle.

Sandra (San) - - 09/20/01 16:07:27
This truly is the best site anyone undergoing IVF can ever find! I canīt think of one question I had that I didnīt find an answer to in here. I feel blessed to be a part of it!

kristen - - 09/19/01 19:08:30
I AM SO GLAD TO HAVE FOUND THIS SITE. I HAVE HAD 1 ECTOPIC PREGNANCY AND 3 MISCARRIAGES. I HAVE NO TUBES AND AM LOOKING FOR POSSIBLE FUNDING TO DO IVF.

Erica - USA - 09/19/01 18:51:24
4+ years ttc. First IVF failed. Currently in 2ww for FET. I can't believe I just found this site. I could have used it a long time ago. I never realized how many women are going through and feeling the same things I am. Great site!

katherine o'neill - eire - 09/18/01 14:59:12

Julie - USA - 09/18/01 11:47:45
I am going in for my HSG this afternoon & am very nervous. I'm glad to be able to read what other people have gone through. I'm very glad to have found this site!

Caroline - UK - 09/18/01 07:04:56
Going through ICSI 4th time, currently in the 2WW. M/C at 8 weeks earlier this year. Thank you for this site. Thought I was alone.

Sam - Australia - 09/17/01 00:53:18
Thankyou for providing such a wonderful informative site, you help make this whole process a little easier!

NADINE - USA - 09/16/01 22:20:28
What a wonderful site. It is nice to share a common bond with so many others whom want to have a baby so bad that we dedicate our heart, souls, and health. May God Bless us all

pandora - england - 09/16/01 15:22:30
to my daughter who remains a twinkle in me and her fathers eye as yet, we wont give up on you - just to let u know we know u are out there

pandora - england - 09/16/01 15:22:26
to my daughter who remains a twinkle in me and her fathers eye as yet, we wont give up on you - just to let u know we know u are out there

Christina - Ottawa, Canada - 09/16/01 14:43:14
Excellent resource! Hope to chat with some of you soon.

Laura W. - USA - 09/16/01 10:21:58

Kim - UK - 09/15/01 18:14:33
Great site, trying soon, fingers crossed for us all! :)

Jennifer - Illinois - 09/15/01 13:19:56
I just found out that my second IVF was not successful. I am looking for information on immature eggs and delayed ICSI results. Thanks for a good site.

vicki - USA - 09/13/01 22:01:29

may - uk - 09/11/01 09:21:44
i'm just at the beginning of the dreaded 2ww and just trying to get as much info as poss this web site has been a great help since i started my first attempt at ivf so thanks

Fiona - Yorkshire, UK - 09/11/01 05:17:11
We have a son of 2 years and 3 months who was conceived by IVF(ICSI) in Leeds on the first attempt. We were very lucky. After a year of feeling delibertating whether to try for a second child, we have finally decided to go ahead and give it a go. I am nervous this time, knowing what lies ahead emotionally and physically in the coming weeks.

Tammy H - Evansville, Indiana, USA - 09/10/01 00:33:45
This i a site I just happened to find..it is GREAT. It has relieved many nervous moments and doubts and unanswered ?'s!!!! I'm 38 & dh 39. We just completed first IVF-ICSI & i'm 4w2d pg. Good luck to all!!!

Tania - Canada - 09/09/01 17:54:30
I am glad that I visited this site and will continue to do so. I am at the beginning of my first IVF cycle after trying to conceive for over 4 years. I am seeking general information on what to expect and perhaps some support along the way. What I have seen do far on this site is very encouraging. Thanks for keeping info. up to date.

Stephanie - - 09/09/01 10:08:23
DH and I have spent a lot of time here - getting information and answers to some of our questions which has helped us communicate with our RE - we are going for IVF cycle II after a devistating first IVF that failed. We will keep you all posted how things are going. Thanx for all of your support.

Clare - England - 09/09/01 10:05:34
I just want to say that I have learned so much just from talking to different people on the boards and want to thank everyone that have responded to my questions.I would have been a nervous wreck by now if didn't have these people to talk to. They know just what you are going through and are sincere with their support and encouragement when times are hard. Thanks guys.

Anna - US - 09/09/01 03:05:02
Just starting the IVF process, first appt with RE on 9/17, so many things going against us, besides IVF, we'll need sperm aspiration with ICSI and I'm 38 so we're really praying for a miracle, All of your info is so helpful

Nicole Edwards - USA - 09/08/01 17:12:36
We just found out 9-6-01 that after 2 surgeries my tubes are blocked. We have a 2 1/2 yr old boy and I had a severe case of Ashermans afterwards. We are now seeking IVF.

jacqui - england - 09/08/01 10:27:00
just found this site a few days ago. I am on 2ww following FET. First IVF failed, 2nd m/c so hopeful this time.

Denise Marie - - 09/05/01 15:04:58
I start IVF this month, 3 failed IUI'S. I am thankful for this site, I have learned so much.

marty - - 09/05/01 10:34:48
I am so glad to have found this site. My husband and I have been trying to conceive for 4 years with no luck. Just started lupron and follistim injections in preparation for IVF. An scared of what is about to happen and NEED to hear from others going through the same thing.

sandra - usa - 09/04/01 22:32:22
Hello all, 29 yof, married 5 years, hubby and I have no problems, got pg June 2000 m/c, pg nov 2000 was ectopic, had lost tube and healthy embryo, tried IVF May 2001 failed, trying another IVF end of september. Nervous about retrieval as it was more painful for husband than myself. Still can get pregnant on own, but have some issues with Endometriosis( very minimal according to Doctor) did not find endometriosis until after the second pregnancy. I just want to say that all of this has been worth it, having a baby is all I have ever dreamed about and know in my heart that it will happen. WE are hopeful that this second time will take...if not hoping we get a lot more eggs in second time because first time only got 7 embryos, all fertilized accept for 2 abnormal fertilizations (DH is a stud per the MD). I have low progesterone, but that has been fixed...so just need to make sure it is in the utuerus and healthy and then we are homefree...HOpefully You all will get there just keep your spirits up!!

Sandra Azzopardi - USA - 09/01/01 12:07:26
Thank you to all that post their information on this website. I recently found out that our first attempt for a baby failed. We are going to attempt a frozen transfer with in the next two months. Thanks to all once again for their stories. It helps to know that I AM NOT ALONE!!

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